Posted on May 22, 2008 by jillvicki
SCENARIO
You and two other women have had a friendship trio for years. All of a sudden you stop hearing from friend #1. You know that she’s been talking to friend #2 and they’ve still been getting together. You tried asking Friend #1 if there’s anything wrong, however, you get no reply. As you don’t know [...]
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Posted on May 15, 2008 by jillvicki
SCENARIO
Many women either suspect or discover that their partner is having an affair. What a lot of women then ask themselves is “what am I doing wrong?”
Do people cheat because of their partners? Can what you say or do cause your partner to stray?
CONSIDER THIS
VICKI:
People have affairs because of their own thoughts and belief [...]
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Posted on April 9, 2008 by jillvicki
QUESTION
Three weeks ago I met a great man. We’ve been seeing each other every weekend since we met. My problem is that I fantasize about him all the time. It’s at the point where I can’t get him out of my head and it’s affecting my work and personal life. I notice this is [...]
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Posted on March 20, 2008 by jillvicki
QUESTION
I look around me and see all kinds of women who, after having kids and watching them grow into little adults, start to turn their sites on re-inventing themselves and moving on with their life in a new direction, but they lack the confidence to “dive in”. Any advice on what us gals should [...]
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Posted on February 27, 2008 by jillvicki
QUESTION
My husband and I have been married for 27 years and have two grown children. He recently told me he wants a divorce; he also revealed that he has been having an affair with another man! I feel angry and betrayed as though our life together was a lie. What should I do?
ANSWER
JILL:
1. Take a [...]
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