Posted on February 27, 2008 by jillvicki
QUESTION
My husband and I have been married for 27 years and have two grown children. He recently told me he wants a divorce; he also revealed that he has been having an affair with another man! I feel angry and betrayed as though our life together was a lie. What should I do?
ANSWER
JILL:
1. Take a [...]
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Posted on December 13, 2007 by jillvicki
QUESTION
I’ve been dating a man for 3 months; he’s polite, considerate and generally very supportive. He was let go from his job a month ago and has no savings to fall back on. He has been looking hard for work, but in his field there’s not much just before the holidays.
He recently asked me if [...]
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Posted on October 10, 2007 by jillvicki
QUESTION
I was reading your site about adultery. My husband has had personal ads on sex websites for a couple of years now. I keep forgiving him, and he keeps doing it. He even carries condoms in his work bag. He knows I know they are there, but won’t get rid of them. I even [...]
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