Husband Of 27 Years Is Gay

QUESTION
My husband and I have been married for 27 years and have two grown children. He recently told me he wants a divorce; he also revealed that he has been having an affair with another man! I feel angry and betrayed as though our life together was a lie. What should I do?
ANSWER
JILL:
1. Take a [...]

Contacting A Birth Parent

QUESTION
I need to know whether I should attempt to contact my birth father, age 54, and half brothers. I am 37 years old. We have never met but they all know about me. The last time my birth father had contact with me was when I was 2 years old. I recently located [...]

Coming Out Over The Holidays

Dear Too Real Women:
How do I break it to my family that the significant other that I am bringing to Christmas dinner is actually a man. They don’t know that I am gay.

ANSWER
JILL:
I cannot help but wonder why you want to use the family holiday dinner to ‘come out’; it seems a bit dramatic. It [...]